I know I know, we are way away from New Years (Well closer that
we think), but I digress. I realize now that with school going kids,
resolutions should be made at the
start of the school year, since that is technically a "New Start" a
new school year and time to refresh and reset and learn from mistakes of last
school year!
So to lead the pack and begin a revolution of "School
New Year Resolution", here are mine with the kindergartner and 5th grader
in tow.
Resolution 1:
Pack for school the night before
Be it the gym bag which we forget, the homework in the bag,
the reading/ library bag, the snack bag etc. Let's pack the school bag the
night before and keep it handy. This way as an unpaid errand runner, I am not running back and
forth with the "forgotten items", kids are not "stressing (me)"
with, oh I forgot and so on and above all mornings are less “drama”
Resolution 2:
Ready the school attire the night before
Mind you, I have a kid in uniform and one kid with no
uniform. So far this has not been a big deal. But, keep it going so they dress
up and come ready with morning routine. With winter coming, this will be
helpful having leggings/ sweaters lined up as well. So yes, continue last year’s good
behavior
Yep, I am giving the pat on the back where it is deserved!
Resolution 3:
Parents: Wake up 30 minute earlier than the kids
(URGH!!! I know) but, it makes sense. I can peel the
almonds, get ready for my day in peace and above all may be have a few sips of
the coffee while it’s still hot. Considering I have to pack hot lunch for one
child, this can get smoother if I actually NOT snooze my alarm! Ideally, I
should be up even earlier and squeeze in a work out- haha. I know!! Let’s start
simple with just 30 minutes earlier than the little monsters angels.
Resolution 4:
Yell less and less of "Hurry Up"
This one will be the TOUGHEST. We are all refreshed after a
blissful summer, so mornings (of one whole week of back to school) have been timely
and peaceful. I know that's not reality of school year’s gone by! But I am
hoping to leverage "Alexa's" alarms and set times to hopefully get us
in car bundled and on time without cursing the traffic amongst other things!
Tough goal!! So open to suggestions on this one!
Resolution 5:
Evening planning
Once the kids home after school, based on schedules- prioritize:
Homework, instrument practice, classes, park, down time and dinner! We cant get
all done on one day, so prioritize. Kids get over enthusiastic for their classes
and as always we get stretched thinner making us squished for time. Aka making
me crankier! Hence my older child and I decided to ease into this routine.
Touch wood, she is sincere and has said, first homework then rest of things.
This one will continue to be a work in progress. I have put
my foot down and agreed on NO SOCIAL commitments on weekdays before 8 pm.
(And No, Netflix is NOT a social commitment)
I get that all of the above are common sense items. But year
after year, as time progresses, I tend to forget. Resulting in me getting crankier
and then the domino effect on the family.
So yes, five fingers: five resolutions: The gist being: plan,
early to bed and early to rise and above all prioritize!!! AND BREATHE! So the girls can do more of this...
These are our "School New Year Resolutions".
More importantly do you think I can follow mine? Well don’t
answer that! You are supposed to say Yes of course!
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